orders ยท post 04 of 7 in this channel
Finalise a WeTheNorth order when it has arrived, not before
This is the only irreversible click in the whole order. Everything else can be argued about afterwards.
the three wethenorth market addresses
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what the button does
It tells the market that the order is complete and the escrow can be released to the vendor. The money moves and the order closes.
There is no undo. There is no cooling off period. There is no reversal on request, because the whole design depends on that release being final.
what you are holding until you click it
Leverage, and nothing else. While the money is in escrow, a vendor has a reason to resolve a problem with you, because the alternative is a dispute they may lose.
After you finalise, they have your money and you have a request. Those are very different positions and the difference is the entire subject of this post.
The escrow post covers the mechanism, and this one is about the moment you give it away.
why the early request sounds so reasonable
It usually comes with a real explanation. Cash flow. A market that pays out slowly. A vendor who has been reliable for a long time and would like to be trusted.
Often the explanation is true. That is what makes it effective, and it is why declining feels rude rather than sensible.
The test is not whether the reason is plausible. It is whether you would be comfortable if the parcel never arrived, because that is the situation you are agreeing to be in.
how to decline without a fight
One sentence, no explanation, no apology. Something like: I will finalise as soon as it arrives. Nothing more.
You do not owe a justification, and offering one invites a negotiation. A short, friendly, unmoved reply ends the conversation better than a long polite one.
A vendor who pushes hard after that has told you something useful for free.
when to actually do it
When the thing has arrived and you have checked it. Not when it has shipped, not when the status changed, not when you feel bad about the delay.
Then do it promptly. Finalising quickly once the order is genuinely complete is the part of the bargain that keeps the system working, and vendors notice it.
Sitting on a finished order helps nobody and it is not caution, it is inattention. The protection was for the period of uncertainty, and that period is over.
if the market auto finalises
Some markets release escrow automatically after a period. If yours does, that period is a real deadline and you need to know it before it matters.
The action before an auto finalise is a dispute, not a message. The post on how a dispute runs covers what that involves and why waiting until the last day is a bad plan.
replies
a reader askedThe vendor has hundreds of good reviews. Can I finalise early for them?
the answerA reputation is built by behaving well while it is being built. It is an asset that can be spent, and early finalisation is one way to spend it.
a reader askedI finalised and then the order never arrived. What now?
the answerThe escrow is gone and your position is much weaker. A message to the vendor and a message to the market is what is left, and neither carries the weight it would have carried an hour earlier.
a reader askedIs refusing to finalise early going to get me a bad rating?
the answerIt might, from a vendor who wanted otherwise. That is a small cost against the thing you are protecting, and it is a cost you can decide to accept.
what this post is not Not a rule about when to finalise. It is a description of what the click costs you, so that the decision is a decision.