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Clear the WeTheNorth inbox, because nobody else will
Messages accumulate because nothing removes them. That is the whole reason this post exists.
the three wethenorth market addresses
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what accumulates
Every question you ever asked. Every reply. Delivery details, if they went through messages. Anything you wrote during a dispute, including the parts you regret.
None of it is doing you any good after the order is closed, and all of it is still sitting there.
why nobody clears it
Because deleting things feels like it might matter later, and because the inbox is not somewhere you go unless you have a reason.
Also because there is no prompt. Nothing ever asks whether you still need a message from three orders ago, so the answer is never given.
what deleting actually does
It removes it from your view. What happens on the server, and to the other party's copy, is not something you control or can verify.
That is a real limit and it is not a reason to skip it. Reducing what is visible in an account that someone might get into is worth doing even if it is not complete.
Treat it as tidying rather than as erasure, and the expectation stays honest.
what to keep and for how long
Keep anything attached to an open order, obviously. Keep anything that would matter in a dispute until the dispute window has closed.
After that, it is history with no function. The keeping is sentimental rather than practical, and there is nothing sentimental worth keeping in a market inbox.
a moment to attach it to
After finalising and leaving feedback, clear the messages for that order. You are already there, the order is done, and the decision is easy at that point.
Attaching it to an event that already happens is the only way it gets done, which is the same argument as the balance habit in leaving a balance sitting.
the better habit is upstream
The best inbox to clear is one that never had much in it. Everything in what to write reduces the amount of clearing you have to do later.
A message that was two sentences is two sentences of exposure. One that was a paragraph about your circumstances is a different object entirely, and deleting it later does not undo the years it might have sat there.
Deletion is the weakest control available and writing less is the strongest. They point in the same direction, and only one of them depends on somebody else honouring it.
So do both, and put the effort into the one that works. Every sentence you did not write is a sentence nobody has to be trusted with.
That sentence is the closest thing this feed has to a general principle, and it is the reason the messages channel is longer than it looks like it needs to be.
Nothing else on this site is quite so cheap to get right or quite so impossible to undo.
Which is a good place to leave the channel. Write less, keep less, and neither of those requires trusting anyone to do anything on your behalf.
replies
a reader askedDoes deleting a message really remove it?
the answerFrom your view, yes. Beyond that you are trusting a system you cannot inspect, so the honest framing is tidying rather than erasure.
a reader askedShould I keep messages as proof?
the answerUntil the relevant dispute window has closed, yes. After that they are proof of nothing that will ever be asked about.
a reader askedIs there an export or archive?
the answerAssume not. If you need something outside the market, you are copying it somewhere you control, which is a decision with its own consequences.
what this post is not Not a promise that deletion removes anything from a server. It says the opposite, and it still recommends the habit.